Silence

     Not talking. I can say from experience that this is pretty difficult. But, it's one of the greatest things you can do. Ok, so when I say no talking I'm not saying that from now on you can't say anything. God have us voices for a reason, right? :) What I REALLY mean by this is that if you have to choose between saying something that you KNOW you'll regret or just staying quiet, the second one is the best. I'm sorry to say that I don't always do this. I'm human! That's why this post is mainly me talking to myself. I'm posting it though in the hopes that I'm not alone in this. I'm not the only person who can't hold back from saying things that she'll later regret, right? :)  But, anyway, times like this when you would rather say something sarcastic or sassy, you might as well stay quiet. Unless of course the comment is meant to be funny (in a not insulting way), then totally go ahead and blurt out whatever your heart desires. But, sassy and sarcastic remarks tend to make people (and by people I totally mean me) feel all superior. And when they act that way it annoys other people. Then when people are annoyed at you, they're most likely not going to act to nice to you. THEN that might make you feel anger towards them. Well, you can kinda see where that goes. Anger and harsh words will just be returned with anger. All of this began because you (me... yes, me) couldn't keep your mouth shut. But, by keeping silent, none of this would have happened. It's seriously just the best way to go. Keep quiet, and you can avoid all of those argument and drama that you go through everyday.  :)